Hey, my name is Chiemelum but I usually go by Chichi or Chi for short
Thoughts of Chi is the space that I use as an outlet for me to share my experiences during my walk of faith and also to share my poems, songs and self-discovery journey in the areas of lifestyle and travel. I really hope I can touch somebody and further inspire, empower and encourage the same way that so many inspirational people have poured into me.
As a woman, if you could share anything about yourself what would it be?
As a woman, I feel like it is important for me to share I ultimately refuse my past situations to dictate my present and thus shape my future. Nobody is perfect and some of us, including myself, have endured and experienced some things. By no standards am I an angel in fact, by conventional means, I may be considered a “hoe” based on sexual history. However, over the years I have developed a thick skin in the sense that it’s not by force to accept the labels society wants to place on you based in your circumstances. Do I agree with giving a woman a name her parents didn’t give her because of how she chooses/chose to express her sexual liberty? Absolutely not. However, I have come to learn that no matter what you do especially from a woman’s perspective society will always have something to say about you. It is impossible for me to please everybody and be everyone’s cup of tea, therefore, I continue to live my life and in my truth. I know my confidence to do so stems from my faith in God and being in a relationship with Him. In this day and age, the art of being strong is needed and I can say that even in the rough times I somehow manage to pull through and get it together. Ultimately, I actively choose to embrace every single part of me and my experiences daily as they have shaped me into the woman I am today.