Public Speaking Skills – Do You Have Them?

Speaking in public brings everyone the heebie-jeebies. Nearly 75% of people suffer from speech anxiety or glossophobia. It’s that nerve-wracking, sweat-breaking, butterflies-in-the-stomach kind of panic. And it doesn’t necessarily have to be in front of an audience of a hundred people; it could be that you’re pitching an idea to three or four of your colleagues at a team meeting at work.

The reason public speaking terrifies us all is that we worry about what people will think of us which makes our brains freeze in panic. Panic, in turn, shuts off the rational part of our brain (the frontal lobe) responsible for our thinking, organizing and planning, and word production. Then chaos ensues.

But glossophobia can be conquered. Public speaking doesn’t have to be frightening. It could actually be a lot fun where you take part in a wonderful experience, meet new people and learn new things. To make sure you – and your listeners – enjoy your next public speaking event, try these simple tips.

  1. Know your audience

Before preparing your speech, there are 2 things you have to know: what you’ll be talking about and who your audience is. The first one goes without saying. It’s the second one that needs a bit of research. You need to find out the following about who’s going to be listening to what you have to say:

  • number of attendees
  • level of expertise
  • age range

Once you know this, you can modify your speech accordingly. You’ll appear friendly and relaxed which is a sure way to reduce your apprehension and make your speech a success. You’re giving them a reason to listen to you by providing information they want and need.

  1. Prepare, prepare, prepare.

Make your material most effective by using anecdotes, humor and a personal touch. Start with an attention-grabbing introduction and end with a compelling finish. Refrain from reading too much because it limits eye contact which is crucial if you want to keep your audience engaged and focused on your message. A good idea would be to draw up an outline or cue cards you can quickly look at to jog your memory and bring you back on track.

While it’s important to be thoroughly prepared, it’s also a great tactic to pay attention to your audience and gauge their reactions to your speech and adapt accordingly. Having that flexibility in your demeanor means your positive energy and enthusiasm will flow through to your audience and help them enjoy your topic.


  1. Moving Your Audience with Words

Individuals in the United States recently celebrated the life and legacy of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Ringing from the radio stations and television programs was his riveting “I Have a Dream Speech;” arguably one of the most quoted and moving deliveries of all time.

What made this speech so compelling? Perhaps it was Dr. King’s candor, reputation or delivery style that made the speech remarkable.

However, if your strip down this famous speech to mere words on paper, you’ll see that the language used stands up to this memorable delivery.

If you have to deliver speeches on a consistent basis or you just want to improve your public speaking style, let’s consider the telling themes used in one of the greatest speeches of all time.

By analyzing his unique wording style and language cues, you’ll be able to implement these tricks into your next speech.

  • Grandeur

“I am happy to join with you today in what will go down in history as the greatest demonstration for freedom in the history of our nation.” – Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.

The opening statement of Dr. King’s speech instantly grabs your attention. Not because it’s delivered with power or the voice speaking the message is an icon. Rather, the exaggeration and expression of grandeur is enough to turn a head or two.

When you’re writing your next speech or essay, express confidence in your words. This will make your audience compelled to listen to what you have to say; even if you’re just starting out in your career.

  • History

Dr. King uses one of the tenants of public speaking; repetition to evoke a message. By incorporating this style into a historical context, it’s educating the reader in an entertaining way.

Now that the audience is presented a statistical fact, they’re more inclined to agree with his point.

When you’re writing a speech, it’s best to provide some sort of historical context that aligns with your overall theme. Backing up your statement with undeniable proof makes your writing valid. It also leaves your audience with a nugget of information they probably didn’t know prior to.

  • Metaphors

Using metaphors and similes makes the context relatable. The audience is able to make a connection they probably couldn’t make prior to listening to the speech. This no doubt grabbed the attention of individuals who may not have been dealing with social injustice.

If you want your audience to stay alert and understand where you’re coming from, incorporate imagery into your writing. This keeps the piece interesting and shows your literary creativity.

  • Urgency

Using words like urgent and fatal no doubt stressed the importance of Dr. King’s message. It made his audience understand that their nations time was limited. Freedom ultimately meant life or death. This point would not have been taken seriously had Dr. King not used such telling vocabulary.

A successful website has several “call-to-action” sprinkled about to drive the reader to do something. This is not to be neglected in your writing. By encouraging your audience to do something, you’re holding them accountable.

Even if they don’t follow through on their actions, they’ll still remember that sense of urgency in the future.

When using words to convey a message, think about who your audience is and what they might need. Implement these tips and your speech is bound to turn heads.

  1. Use audiovisuals wisely

While they may seem like a nice touch, they can also break your audience’s attention. Choose your audiovisuals so they serve a direct purpose, like clarifying your message and maintaining your audience’s attention.

5. Change your outlook

Instead of going out in front of everyone worrying about how you’ll do and how they’ll react in a negative light, think of it as being given a chance to talk about something you enjoy. Also, get comfortable with being quiet in front of a group of people.

You don’t have to talk the entire time; you get a few seconds here and there to look out at your audience, catch your breath and gauge their reactions. Use the silence to add to your speech, not take away from it.

  1. Be confident in your own skin

First off, as much as we hate to admit it, your appearance is what you’ll be judged on in those first few seconds. So, choose an outfit that makes you feel confident and self-assured. You can also get your hair done and a manicure to boost your confidence level because when you like what you see, you’ll feel great and that will trickle down to your listeners.

Once your speech starts, there are things like smiling, eye-contact, relaxed body language, a powerful, friendly voice, that keep up that confidence level and keep your audience wanting to hear you until the end.

No one in the audience expects perfection. Just putting in the time to practice and go over your speech goes a long way in terms of calming your nerves, boosting your presentation skills and bolstering your confidence. It All Starts With You!

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5 thoughts on “Guest Post| Public Speaking Skills – Do You Have Them?

  1. It’s interesting, I used to dread speaking in school in front of the class. As an adult, I’m in positions to present to large crowds and now I love it. The bigger the crowd the better. I love having the stage.

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      1. I think the moment that changed things is when I started doing “cooking shows” in people’s homes while selling Pampered Chef. I always try to tell people to treat it as a conversation and focus on just a few people in the crowd. 🤗

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