Nothing to Lose
Sometimes we don’t realize until it’s too late that people that we call our “ride or die” peeps are really not our ride or dies. As much as we would like to think they would take a bullet for us, truth is they really wouldn’t. Better yet the people that say they have our backs really don’t. We all love to feel that we have the one person in our corner but we’ve never really stop to check what are their motives are for being so clingy. Or we never question why are they really in your presence. Truth is some of us never evaluate who’s in our circle and why. We never ask ourselves who benefits from our connections. We never really notice until it’s too late that you’re the person in the friendship or relationship giving your all. You’re the real ride or die. You’re the person having everyone’s best interest at heart. The reason why people latch on to you is not for you to benefit but it’s because THEY benefit from you. Stop doubting who you are. Stop minimizing your dreams and goals to fit in with people who have everything to gain from you and have NOTHING TO LOSE in the process.