We are living in a time where morals and standards are seemingly extinct. Not to say they still don’t exist but the chances of meeting someone with them is rare. But that doesn’t mean you should give up the hope of finding it. It simply means you will have to up your standards so that what you’re aiming to find will also be attracted to you. You can’t go to a burger joint looking to order crab legs. What you want and what you’re willing to do for what you want ultimately determines what you get. Are you willing to cut the no goods and focus on becoming a better woman to attract a better man? If not, you will never get what you truly deserve. To whom much is given, much is required. We as woman have to stop selling ourselves short. We have to stop being the wives with no rings.
What I mean by that is stop thinking that just being a good woman will do the trick. I’m a witness, it won’t. To be honest, we are the most manipulated out of all woman because we feel like we deserve a good man but forget to look at it in the aspect of “Does this man deserve me?” Make him earn your heart. Stop giving him all you have to offer before he gives you anything. We are the source of our own pain. Enjoy being chased and wooed and don’t feel bad about it. After all, you know what kind of woman you are. So take off that invisible ring you’ve been wearing for too long and get ready for your quest to being the woman that got the man and the ring she deserves.
Written by Netta Jay of Natta Jay Speaks