Ladies, most of you who know me know my story... For the ones who have just met me via Facebook, inbox, etc...I'll share the short version... Boy meets girl, girl falls in love with boy: they decide to get married, a year later they had a child... Now wife never talked about her past and that affected her relationship between now husband... Which lead him to have multiple affairs which hurt his wife. The husband was hurt as well from all the rejection that came from his wife not touching him, making love to him, always saying no and pretending she didn't need him which opened more doors for the husband to seek others... Some were close to the wife some were not. It didn't matter because it still hurt... Now let's fast forward wife gets past that hurt and betrayal and 11 years later finds out new information about her husband's past...people threaten to hurt the wife because of their hurt from the past that was just brought to light... So they decided they wanted me to hurt...if there are any questions--YES my husband and I are still together and loving each other more in this season than we have ever in our entire 17 years of marriage. So why did I title this Love Under New Management! Well let me tell you..when you get something new you tend to do away with the old maybe because it doesn't work anymore or it might have just been time for a newer model. In our case it was the latter...The old Andre needed to be made whole again and the old Jennifer needed to know how much she hurt her husband. God showed us all that and more!! He allowed us to start really praying and searching for answers to the hurt that was built from years of rejection from me (Jennifer). Then I could really truly admit that I caused some deep hurt over the years that my husband never felt like he could share with me because of my actions. Don't you think for a minute that the devil didn't start getting busy... hell broke loose with family, children and even my husband. There were thoughts in his head that this time we weren't going to make it because of the new information. Though it was old, it was still new to me...now you still might ask why do I called this Love Under New Management... Well through all that we are still standing today because of the grace that God has given us to restore and start over as husband and wife.. Now is this for everyone??? I can say that different people are equipped to handle different situations.. Was my husband wrong for cheating? YES! Was I wrong for rejecting him as his wife and opening that door? YES! I think as wives we sometimes have to really be honest with ourselves and see our part in the situation.. Not that it made it right but I own up to my part. I read something from a person who had very strong views on infidelity in marriage; they stated that they would get a divorce if it happen in their relationship...well biblically you have the right to do so AND every person has a right to their opinion...BUT for me divorce wasn't an option, fixing the problem was...You see God showed my husband and I a new way to love, his way to communicate better, love better, laugh longer, spend more quality time just loving each other. All things combined taught me that it's not all about me. My husband wants to feel special just like I do... It allowed me to open my eyes to so many different things I missed for years... Our love now is more Christ centered and driven by the word of GOD! It is his word that keeps us even when it still gets hard... Yes ladies, it gets hard for me sometimes. But the love that God has placed in my heart for my husband is unbreakable and I couldn't see a moment of my life without him...I have witnessed a man grow into a man of God, a lover of people, his wife, and children... I've watched him minister to others and do things for people that he never speaks of and not asking for anything in return... I've watched him chase after God wanting to know more of his word to teach others how to survive the storm of a broken marriage... So you see, I really feel blessed in some ways not for the act itself, but for the bringing it in to the light... It allowed us to heal and live again, trust and be made whole again... So if you are looking for your Love To be Under New Management.. Don't hide the truth if you can deal with it all of it... Heal from it and start New! The Williams' are living testimonies that prayer and being two totally committed people wanting change works in saving your marriage... This is my story what's yours? Have you met Jennifer?